True life Stories From Women who Wants More Sex Everyday

This is a call to women whose Sexual stereotypes seen to be on infringement as a result of their differences  in sexual engagements with their various partners. read there stories :

“When my attempts to excite him with lingerie and high heels failed, I felt ugly and worthless”

In the vast majority of my relationships, I have always wanted more sex than my partner. I am now 28 and with someone with whom I am sexually compatible, but it wasn’t till a few years ago that I actually became fully comfortable with my sexuality. When I was 21, I married a man who I loved very much but who had an incredibly low sex drive. He claimed that porn did nothing for him and that he only masturbated about once a month. I would try to bring him out of his shell and suggest things to do together, but every suggestion was met with a flat-out “no” or silence. I felt ashamed for wanting much more sex than my husband, and when my attempts to excite him with lingerie and high heels failed, I felt ugly and worthless.

After we split, I found solace in Dan Savage’s podcast, Savage Love. He fielded TONS of calls from people, men and women, who found themselves in similar situations where one partner wants more sex than the other. I suddenly didn’t feel bad or freakish anymore for having a high sex drive, having heard their stories.

 “I am that woman who wants it more”

I am that woman who wants it more. I am the woman
who is dissatisfied after not seeing my significant other for months due to a long-distance relationship. I am the woman that wants to learn more about why stories are published on the idea that men are the sex-starved species. We know now through responses that this is not the case. So, when do you take a look at what your needs are and realize that they aren’t met? When do you weigh commitment higher than sexual indulgence?

“It’s a horrible place to be when your partner doesn’t want to have anything to do with you sexually”


I was on the bad end of this deal with my ex. I was lucky if we had sex twice a week and then when we went long distance because I was promoted out of state, during our monthly visits we maybe had sex once. He told me he just wasn’t in the mood as much as I was and we should just spend our time together by going out and doing things rather than having sex. It was a completely odd scenario. I later broke up with him for other reasons.
It’s a horrible place to be when your partner doesn’t want to have anything to do with you sexually and when you do end up sleeping together it seems like more of a chore on their end just to shut you up. At the end of the day I know that sex is a big part of what I want in a relationship because physical touch is huge for me in all aspects of the word.


“I keep hearing that I’m ‘like a dude when it comes to sex’”

EVERY relationship I’ve EVER been in, I want more sex than he does. My partners have all acknowledged this. In fact, the refrain I keep hearing — or sometimes overhearing when they’re talking to friends — is that I’m “like a dude when it comes to sex.”

So having that social construct thrown out like it’s fact that women naturally want less sex just makes me want to scream. There’s so much variance among both sexes. Even among my female friends: some rarely want sex; others want it frequently. It’s so individual. You can’t say men have a higher drive, or women do. All we can say is this: Some people want more sex than other people. It varies widely from person to person regardless of sex.


“My boyfriend and I have been going to a sex therapist for about five months now and nothing has changed”

I don’t need sex twice a day, once a day or even a couple times a week, all I am asking from him is sex MAYBE once a week to a week and a half but we on average have sex about every 30 days. I have a lot going for me: I am an attractive 25-year-old, I get looks and nice comments from different men, I run my own business, I work out regularly and am in better shape than most women, I have a great personality and have a lot of friends, I also am a woman that likes to have sex!! My boyfriend and I have been going to a sex therapist for about five months now and nothing has changed with our intimacy. I like to dress up for him but when he sees me in a sexy outfit he gets upset because he thinks I am pressuring him to have sex and that it’s not fair to put that kind of pressure on him. He doesn’t have a problem getting erect, in fact I find him masturbating in the shower and on the couch when he thinks I am not around. It hurts my feelings that I throw myself at him and am usually willing and ready for some action and he masturbates and doesn’t include me. I ask him over and over why won’t you have sex with me, what do I need to do?

“He wanted to go sightseeing and I wanted to take advantage of the huge bed”
I have been married to the love of my life for almost 25 years. In all those years I always wanted it more. The night of our honeymoon I was very disappointed because he wanted to go sightseeing the night we arrived and I wanted to take advantage of the the huge bed. This was very hard on me I always thought men would be the ones in the mood. In my case if I don’t initiate it, nothing is going to happen. I actually waited during the first year of marriage to see if he would ever go for it. We went more than three months without it till I mentioned that we hadn’t had sex in months. If I remind him then he will say we should do it that night. Don’t get me wrong he never tells me no, but he NEVER initiates sex and it used to drive me nuts. We were each others first partners and we waited till we were almost married to have sex, though we dated for a few years. I thought he was just being very respectful now I realize sex is not a big deal for him.

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