To become a good boyfriend, the one she cherish and care to stay with forever, you must know how to communicate with her, and how to be loving and affectionate without any form of smothering her. A good boyfriend would understand where his girlfriend is coming from and when to give her some space. To know how to do it , then follow the steps below. Happy reading.
Step 1: Communication
- Be honest to her. You should tell her what she needs to know without trying to overwhelm her with the truth. If you had a serious past, let her know about it without revealing details about your ex.
- Be trustworthy and trust her. Let your girlfriend see reasons to trust you and trust her in return. Trust should form the foundation and pillar of your relationship; it is very important, after all, love is a combination of commitment and trust. You can make her trust you by showing that you care and showing concern if she tells you about something personal to her.
- Contribute equally to conversations. Conversations are about give and take. You should avoid telling her long stories waiting for her to react.
- Be a good listener. You must know that; its not all about acknowledging your girlfriend's story of her important experience, its also about remembering, do not just put her stories in your short -term memory
- Learn to show compromise: compromise is a huge part of a successful communication. After you and your girlfriend dissected and issue about a certain situation , Both should make a pro and con list of what you arrived at. and decide what will be the best. I doesn't matter if the idea arrived at is from her.
- Show compliment to her sincerity
- Be sympathetic -when it matters.; if it means something to her it should also mean something to you.
- Show affection always; but don't over-emphasize it.Make physical contact.
- Appreciate her appearance, make her feel the best
- Give her presents on special occasions.
- keep your relationship ever-green
- Present her a gift
- go with her on a surprise trip
- Take care of yourself
- Give her some space
- Spend time with your separate friends.
- Maintain some of your separate interest
- express your independent opinion.
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