New Relationship Advice For Perfect Start

Have you just found yourself in a new relationship? Learn what matters in love, right from the start, using this relationship advice and tips.

There is nothing more exciting than having a new lover. The
aura of flagrance, emotion and passionate intoxication its brings cannot be overemphasized!

A new relationship Brings alongside with it a hope for good things and adds a bit of mystery. That propels one to learn more about love. Most times, the level of intoxication of love that new lovers experience, could be so high that you may not want to rush into grabbing the romance it brings alongside with great excitement without thinking of the other side of it and what it has to offer within first few weeks.But you must know that going into a new relationship isn't like tearing the wrapper off your Christmas present in anticipation to know what it contains. You have to take your time to gradually open the layers.

If you've just met your destined partner and do not want to ruin a perfect start, here are some special pointers you need to take it from a new relationship to a permanent love affection.

#1, Meet often but do not abuse it.
When you find yourself in a new relationship. you'd want to spend every waking minute with your sweetheart, it's normal and understandable,because of the excitement it brings. But could you be

pushing it too far?

Remember, when you met your new date, you shared exciting moments together, taking walkout together and often times enjoying all the goodies  a new relationship and love brings and as it goes on out of your daily routine, you started getting fed up with the whole thing, it's the same story with love

As you meet very often you are gradually changing the lives of  each other, have special moments and affectionate feelings for each other. This may feel so great for few days, weeks or so but eventually your other commitments may pile up and one of you may start getting annoyed for taking so much time out of your love schedule.

It is advisable to go out on dates ones or twice per week and it'll keep the love and excitement freshened on a high, for a long time. But if both of you are very seriously in love and cannot afford to keep away from each other for so long,then have excuse to meet each other so often but with  caution, in order not to blast the whole set up.

#2. Do not get clingy

Just because you are dating doesn't give you the platform to infringe on each other's rights. From the beginning you must learn to give each other some bit of space, especially from the stage of conception of the relationship, respect each other's privacy, this is very important, you are only dating each other and do not need to jump into knowing everything  bit of information about each other. At the moment you are only a special part of each other's live. Do not give yourselves too much importance, that isn't necessary at this stage.


#3. Present gifts But not lavishly

Your new lover may be the only thought that surrounds your imagination at the moment, but that doesn't mean you should go all the way to present gifts often times to your lover.
Save the spending spree for later, when the relationship must have grown to maturity. What is necessary now is laying a solid foundation that will lead the relationship to a greater height

If you really want to express your love, try gifts that are completely inexpensive. Your lover will be happier to receive such gifts from you, much more than when you are luxurious in giving. This is very important at this stage of your relationship.


#4. Do not involve sex too quickly

In every newly incited relationship, there may be tendencies to share special moments with each other through love making  due to high intensity of lust as addressed by love-o-meter pointer, this should be avoid any every possible way, Both of you must be in full control of your emotions and feelings, having sex on the first or second date will induce a huge spell of oblivion on the

relationship.Not even on the third or fourth date is advised, sex should be completely out of it at this point.

Responsibility is very important at this moment, both of you must grow the relationship with utmost control of your emotional feelings and lust. If for any reason your lover cannot control his or her feelings of lust, then he isn't the one for you, that is a signal you must not overlook,

#5. Don't be possessive

Possessiveness is never a good trait in any relationship, that is a bad signal of insecurity and jealousy being sent to your date. If you are possessive, then you must suck it up immediately, because this can set up a potential storm upon your relationship. No matter how your lover socializes, with groups and opposite sex, you have to overlook it. Because any sign of insecurity and jealousy may end the relationship before you even know it.

#6. Accept each other habits and shortcomings

Accepting your lovers, habit and shortcomings is a very nice way to install comfort and concern in your relationship. Learn to adjust to your lovers habit. Remember when you fall in love with

someone, you fall in love with everything about that person, including the person's habit.It doesn't really matter whether you are in love or not, you cannot readily change some one's habit and personality. If you find your date, incompatible, then end the relationship instead of suffering series of emotional breakdowns and insecurity.

#7. Do not use the three magical words; "I-Love-You"


With your relationship still in it's tenderness, you must avoid using the words. I-love-you. Those these words have ability to make or mar your relationship depending upon which contest you used them,It is highlly adviceable to keep off from those words for now, it isn't needed at thiss stage of your relationship. Resist any trace of infactuation within you and try to take things slowly.Confirm the growth of your relationship, are you convinced that you have found your true love, then you can let the world know about your love for you partner.

#8. Do not introduce your date to friends too soon

never make the mistake of introducing your lover to any of your friends at this stage,though this is not bad, but trying to overwhelm  your new lover, with so much information, may stain the apron string of the relationship.If you walk into a friend while on a date with your lover, introduce your lover with a simple name of your lover, avoid getting into details, by so doing you would save your relationship from any awkward situation.

#9. Communicate and listen to each other    
 When you are in a new relationship, the bodily explorations may be the climax that ends in
a cozy corner or in bed.This doesn't help build an envious relationship, communication does.
 Try to engage in extensive conversation, learn from each other, share opinions that will cement a lasting relationship, find out what your new date likes, dislikes and interests. This will help both of you figure out your sexual compactibility and establish a relationship on a level that is beyond sexual affection and exploration.

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